Buka Matamu Lebar-lebar Dan Tutuplah Setelah Menemukannya (“Open your eyes wide then close your eyes forever when you found someone”)

Bagi yang telah menemukan pasangan hidupnya alias kekasih hatinya, maka ketika ditanya apakah susah mencarinya dulu jawabannya adalah sangat gampang tetapi agak susah. Orang tuaku berpesan agar didalam memilih pasangan hidup maka “Buka matamu lebar – lebar kemudian terpejamlah selama – lamanya”. Itu adalah sebuah kata kiasan yang tidak memiliki arti sebenarnya. Mencari pasangan hidup cukup berbeda dengan mencari teman, dan pada prinsipnya harus berpedoman pada pesan diatas. “Buka matamu lebar – lebar kemudian terpejamlah selama – lamanya”.

For those who have found a life partner or lover, a question then asked whether it is difficult or easy to find a lover. The answer is surely easy but it‘s rather difficult. My parents advised that in choosing a life partner or lover then I have to “Open my eyes wide then close my eyes forever when you found someone”. It is a figure of speech that has no real meaning. Looking for a life partner or lover is different from making friends, and in principle should be based on the above message. “Open your eyes wide then close your eyes forever when you found someone”.

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Makna dari pesan diatas bahwasannya kita harus menilai kebenaran dan kejujuran dari calon kita terlebih dahulu sebelum memutuskan untuk menikah menjadi pasangan hidup selama -lamanya. Akan tetapi setelah memutuskan dengan pasti untuk menikahi pasangan hidup kita maka “tutuplah mata” jangan melihat orang yang lainnya sebagai pembanding setelah menikah. Sebab karakter asli dari masing – masing diantara sepasang insan baru dapat diketahui setelah menikah. Waktu berpacaran tingkah laku pasangan kita seperti burung merak yang sedang mengembangkan ekornya, akan tetapi setelah menikah dia menutup ekornya yang indah bahkan menyerang dan galak. Mencari teman juga sama halnya harus menilai terlebih dahulu sebelum kita terjerumus kedalam pergaulan yang tidak baik. Diawali oleh rasa setia kawan akan menjadi susah untuk ditinggalkan. Saya menjadi perokok karena salah dalam memilih teman.

The meaning of the message above is that we must access before deciding to marry someone. But after making a definite decision to marry someone then “close your eyes” do not see the other person as a comparison after married. Because the original character of each between a pair of human beings can only be known after the marriage. At the time of dating our lover‘s behavior as peacock tail which was developing beautifully, but after marriage such a peacock closing its beautiful tail and even fiercely attack. Looking for friends also have to access the same thing as well before we get into a punk relationships that are not good. Preceded by a sense of solidarity will be hard to leave behind. I became a smoker because of wrong in choosing a friends.

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Yang perlu diperhatikan adalah Bebet, Bibit, Bobot dari seseorang. BEBET artinya, berasal dari keluarga seperti apa calon pasangan kita. Apakah dari keluarga baik-baik atau penjahat?. BOBOT artinya, kesiapan seseorang dalam memberi nafkah keluarga. Bobot dititkberatkan pada aspek ekonomi. Atau, dititikberatkan pula pada kepribadiannya. BIBIT artinya pasangan hidup kita sehat jasmani dan rohaninya. Penilaian dilakukan pada saat berpacaran. Kadangkala rupa dari fisik seseorang tidak selalu mencerminkan kondisi hati orang itu. Kekayaan seseorang juga hal yang sama sering mengelabui seseorang. Sifat seseorang juga dapat mempengaruhi rupa orang itu. Setiap orang sudah pasti menginginkan pasangan hidup yang terbaik. Tetapi percayalah biar secantik atau seganteng apapun pasangan anda, tidak akan bertahan lama dikarenakan sifat dasar manusia yang selalu menginginkan lebih dan ingat bahwa dua insan itu berawal dari dua hal yang berbeda pasti ada sebuah pertengkaran didalamnya. Pada awalnya adalah rasa cinta selanjutnya yang ada adalah kasih sayang dan rasa tanggung jawab sepanjang usia itu yang setiap manusia harapkan. Saya pernah mendengar sebuah lelucon ” Melihat anak orang lain langsung teringat anak sendiri, akan tetapi melihat istri orang lain lupa istri sendiri”. Jaman sekarang sudah edan. Baru berpacaran saja sudah melakukan hubungan yang cukup jauh.

Noteworthy is bebet, bibit, bobot (Indonesian terms) of the person. BEBET mean, what kind of family our lover come from. Is it from a good family or criminal ?. BOBOT meaning, the readiness of a person in providing any economic support for the family. The point is on economic aspects. Or, focused also on his personality. BIBIT means a healthy body and soul. The assessment was conducted at the time of dating. Sometimes the physical form of a person does not necessarily show the person’s heart. Wealth is also the same person often deceive someone. The nature of a person also can effect the physical of a person. Everyone certainly wants to have the best life partner. But I believe how beautiful or cute is your life partner, will never be long-lasting because human nature always wants more and remember that two human beings are came from two different things surely there will a mismatch causing contention. In the beginning was the love then there is affection and a sense of responsibility throughout the ages that what should be. I once heard a joke “Seeing other people’s children immediately thought of own children, but look at another man’s wife forgot own wife“. This era is crazy. Dating time much to intercourse.

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Miss Pennywinkle

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Miss Pennywinkle’s was the best bakery around. She opened the doors at exactly seven in the morning and closed at four in the afternoon, seven days a week. During those hours the shop was always full. Her cauldron cookies melted in one’s mouth and her flying broomsticks thrilled children of every age. Her chocolate raspberry heart tarts were only available to those over twenty-one years of age and they sold out each and every day. Fairy Dust cupcakes, chocolate and vanilla, were special favorites of women under thirty and upsidedown bat buns were favored by young men. Miss Pennywinkle’s cakes could easily be up to twenty layers high and made of anything one desired. Needless to say, she catered all the events in the city.

But Miss Pennywinkle had something else in her bakery, something no one knew about. Two of the rooms in the back…

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Beban Hidup Yang Semakin Berat (The Heavy Burden of Life)

Ketika anda merasakan beban hidup anda menumpuk, Anda merasakan bahwa apa yang anda hadapi melebihi kemampuan Anda dalam menghadapinya. Sebenarnya tidak akan pernah terjadi penumpukan masalah jika kita menghilangkan budaya menunda melainkan membiasakan diri menyelesaikan masalah yang ada dengan cepat. Saya pernah mengalaminya sehingga waktu setahun terasa cepat sekali berlalunya.

When you feel the weight of your life’s problem begin to accumulate, you feel that is about to exceed your ability to deal with. Actually it will never happen the buildup of a problem if we end the culture of postponing instead on resolving the problem quickly. I ever experienced a difficulty of life begin to accumulate until I felt a year time was quickly passed away.

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Tidak ada manusia terlahir tanpa masalah. Masalah itu akan datang silih berganti sehingga waktu setahun itu menjadi tidak terasa berlalu. Masalah – masalah hidup itulah yang disebut dengan beban hidup. Bagaimana mungkin bisa terlepas dari beban hidup jika yang menjadi beban itu adalah keluarga sendiri. Agar tidak merasa berat atau terbebani maka anggap saja menjalankan sebuah kewajiban. Menurut saya hal ini bisa saya aplikasikan ke setiap daun – daun kehidupan yang dihadapi.

No humans are born free of problems. Problems will come and go so within a year became noticeably gone. The problem occurred in life then what I called the live load. How could be free from the burden of life when it is coming from my own family. In order to ignore the heavy load or weighed down so l am just facing this as an obligation. I think I can apply it to every leafs of life.

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Seorang teman saya pernah memberikan sebuah saran yang sangat berharga. Jika beban hidup terasa semakin berat hal ini mengindikasikan bahwa kehidupan kita sedang naik status ke arah yang lebih tinggi. Seperti sebuah restoran jika pengunjungnya semakin ramai maka akan terasa berat pekerjaan yang akan diselesaikan dan semakin banyak kebutuhan yang harus dipenuhi. Intinya jangan pernah menunda suatu pekerjaan. Hadapi saja dan angkat beban berat itu seperti seorang Hercules putra Zeus yang maha kuat.

A friend of mine once gave a very valuable suggestions. If burden of life is getting heavier then this indicates that our lives are rising in the status toward higher. As an increasingly crowded restaurant, it will be a hard work to conduct and more needs met. The point is do not ever put off a job. Face it and lift the heavy loads like a Hercules son of Zeus the powerful Man.

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Top Twelve Courses For Married Men (If You Want A Happy Marriage)

Top Twelve Courses For Married Men (If You want A Happy Marriage)

12 – How to Fight Cerebral Atrophy – Remembering Birthdays, Anniversaries and
Other Important Dates and Calling When You’re Going To Be Late.
Cerebral Shock Therapy Sessions and Full Lobotomies Offered.

11- How to be the Ideal Shopping Companion Relaxation Exercises, Meditation, and Breathing Techniques.

10 – How To Fill Up The Ice Cube Trays
Step by Step Slide Presentations.

9 – The Toilet Paper Roll – Does It Change Itself?
Round Table Discussion.

8 – Is It Possible To Urinate Using The Technique Of Lifting The Seat
Group Practice.

7 – Fundamental Differences Between The Laundry Hamper and The Floor
Pictures and Explanatory Graphics.

6 – After Dinner Dishes – Can They Levitate and Fly Into The Kitchen Sink?
Examples on Video

5 – Loss of Identity – Losing The Remote To Your Significant Other
Hot Line and Support Groups.

4 – Learning How to Find Things – Starting With Looking In The Right
Places And Not Turning The House Upside Down While Screaming.
Open Forum

3 – Real Men Ask For Directions Real Life Testimonials

2 – Is It Genetically Impossible To Sit Quietly While She Parallel Parks?
Driving Simulations.

1- Learning to Live – Basic Differences Between Mother and Wife.
Online Classes and role-playing.

Have a wonderful weekend. Be safe and keep writing.

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Ex hypothesi

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I Will Tell You These Secrets

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Your touch is a healing caress and when we touch my heart beats within your chest. I think of you each morning, I look for you each night, I remember your embrace and savor the memory of my delight. how can I express the power of my gratitude?

To hold you, To know that […]

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MISCHIEF♠NIGHT

A lot of mischief around with #Halloween just around the corner 🎃♠️

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I walk with the memories of the ancient people whose energies still swim in my blood

If you dare…draw back my cloak and peer behind it let me show you what I have discovered

I am deliciously a beauty of the dark…

curious seeker do not follow me if you are weak of mind or faint of heart or you fear your weak soul may be enslaved

tonight this temptress shall set herself free upon this earth as I become everything you were ever afraid of

ever present are the souls of the dead together in the darkness we roam your neighborhood til it be light ♠

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Jack & Belinda: The (Sky) Dance

Style and sophistication beautiful 👌

A Bus To Nostalgia and a Return Please

Just love this post the red double decker and On the buses fantastic 👌

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I apologise in advance if you have no interest at all in cars, buses, or indeed any other road ve-hicles!

I am a bit of a closet petrolhead, and for that I WILL NOT apologise! 😉

Read on… all who dare!

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Recently, I read a wonderful poem about British buses. For some reason it made me feel a little teary and nostalgic.That was silly of me, right?

But I couldn’t shake it off, and I started thinking later that evening; about how much of my time growing up in England, has been spent travelling miles and miles using the good old British Bus! And about how many happy memories I still have of riding on them. Red buses, green, blue and later, gold. There seems to be a whole spectrum of the rainbow involved in bus couture these days!

My first memory of a bus journey…

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13 Ways 👻Ghosts Have All The Same Problems As You

#AceFriendsNews Oct.30: Maybe the afterlife isn’t so different after all.

It’s way too easy for ghosts to spend an eternity on the couch.

It's way too easy for ghosts to spend an eternity on the couch.

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Their (after)lives can be boring AF.

Their (after)lives can be boring AF.

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They understand the frustration that comes when things just don’t go according to plan.

They understand the frustration that comes when things just don't go according to plan.

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Ghost squads have a few dull moments (in between the fun).

Ghost squads have a few dull moments (in between the fun).

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